Ah, love is in the air…or, well, maybe that should be like is in the air. hehe. My friends seem to be finding people they are interested in and its kinda cute to see. The thing I don’t get, is how many of them come to me for relationship advice. Like I’m going to know!!! I’ve only been in 2 relationships, and this last one I still don’t understand where its going/went. So why they come to me, I have no idea. But it is really interesting to see and hear how everyone seems to have that mis-communication in all relationships whether its in the beginning of one, or in the midst of one, or even after one is done.
Tonite I was able to go hang out with one of my best friends from college. I hadn’t seen her since last semester, and it was soo good to be able to hang out with her again. We talked about everything that had been going on in our lives. What the funny part is, is that, in lue of relationships, she and I are actually in opposite standpoints from one another. Like, my views on how a ‘relationship’ right now is the same as the guy she is interested, and her views are the same as the guy I’m still not sure what is going on with. It was just very interesting to see, and since we are so close, it enabled us to better see how these guy’s view points are compared to ours. Random, but very interesting.
We did decide, however, that there needs to be a word for the stage between friends and a dating relationship. And no, “talking” does not do it justice. Sorry kids, but it just doesn’t. This is the stage where you feel like you could be in a relationship with this certain person, and yet your not exactly sure if now is the right time. This is the stage where you both commit to seeing where this is going, and yet still remain friends without all the relationship ’stress’ added to it. The stage where everyone else just assumes you both are already dating, and yet really you aren’t just yet, its just that you are both committed to seeing if it could lead to a dating relationship or not. But the phrase “talking” does not do it justice. It needs another word. Sadly, we couldn’t think up such a word even though we both agreed that this is a stage that is critical in any relationship. Can anyone think of a word for this stage? And does anyone else agree with us on this?
On a side note, I have a test in marketing on Friday. I am not a test-taker. I do horrible on them, especially now that I’m in college. I tend to pull my grades up via homework and online stuff. But not tests. What makes this particular situation even worse, is that this class is one of the 3 outta my 5 that only my tests count for my grade. We don’t do anything else in the classes but have 4 tests the whole semester. So somehow I’m going to have to figure out how to take test well otherwise I am screwed, and I just refuse for that to happen. So yea, any suggestions?
Lost starts tomorrow! I’m very excited about that. I can’t wait for it to start up again.
It’s really cold in this room and I definetely have the heat on. But its ok, because I am curled up in my bowl chair and I’m too cozy to move, so I will just have to deal. I’ve come to realize there is no possible way for me to ever do homework in this chair though. Every time I try I end up taking a nap. hehe. It is just waay too comfy!
Hmm….I should get to bed here soon. I have an 8:30am class tomorrow and since I already skipped it this week, I seriously doubt I should again.
So I leave you with this: Doritos and peanut butter=Awesomeness. Don’t say its gross until you try it. Its been one of my favorite snacks since I was really little. Seriously, try it!
Peace, Love, and Onion Rings,
-immashutterbug
